Life Lessons
* Rajan Thapaliya
rajanthapaliya@gmail.com
If you don't build your dream, someone will
hire you to help build theirs. – Tony Gaskin
We all have different backgrounds.
Obstacles always hinder our steps moving towards the
goals. I communicate every day
on Facebook with dozens of people. I’ve never met. They talk about Present,
past and future but they don’t know where they are? They talk about success but
they are thinking and over thinking day by day. Repeating, the same thing over and
over. Many people are doing very hard work but success is very far from their
world. The main reason is lack of self-motivation. Fear of
failure and depression. Depression creates stress and stress creates lack of
self -motivation. I always remember quotes by great philosopher Osho, Live your life in your own way. Nobody can say
anything about you. Whatsoever people say is about themselves” There’s a story of Julius Caesar where he once got into
the enemy island, he got all the ships that he used to enter the island to be
destroyed. There was only one way for all of his army to get out of that
island. It was to win the war no matter what. This great general understood the
concept of never giving up. It is very important to burn all the bridges and
move ahead if we are to get somewhere we never have been to. So, like Churchill
said, Never give up.
Create your vision. Feel your
dream from the inner heart. Built your
dream, create your own ideas, set your goal, and be action oriented. When you
do that, this world will be yours. You will love it, everything whatever you
have. Whatever you are doing , whatever you are thinking. President Obama Says,
“Americans... Still believe in an America where anything's possible - they just
don't think their leaders do”.
Be aware with your negative friends
and negative minded people, and society. Leave them. Say Goodbye. Create your
own way. If you don’t like something don’t do it. If you don’t like somebody
don’t follow them. Always trust yourself. Judge by yourself not by others.
Judge by your own spiritual heart. Don’t compare yourself with other people
because we all are different. We came from different situation. Accept yourself
because you are perfectly good. If opportunity doesn't knock your door, built
your dream. If you are creative, opportunities knock your door. Always be
positive. Nobody knows what’s going to happen tomorrow. Be optimistic and
thankful. In our life, every second is precious,
be up to date in your life. Push hard to achieve your goal.
Many people think about failure
before success. Don’t think too much about the result. Don’t think too much
about failure. Failure vibration makes you fail. If you want to be success
think about victory. Only victory makes a history. Where there is shadow there
is light. Failure is also a way to learn again and way to be successful. Never
say I can’t do this, I can’t do that. Say – I can do everything. This is your
world. Try, try and try. Positive things happen to positive people.
Different situations bring different changes in our life. Whatever you
do, do your best and love it. When you do something definitely, you will get
something please never ever give up. So always don’t stop effort until your
victory makes a history. Who are you? Where did you come from? Where are you
going? What you are thinking? A most important thing is what is your dream?
What do you really want? What are you doing to achieve it? Well different
people do different things. Many people are repeating same thing day by day and
one generation to another generation producing the same results. If you don’t
like something don’t do it. If you don’t like somebody don’t follow them. If
you feel uncomfortable with somebody, ignore them. Always trust yourself.
Create your own version of your happy life. Believe in yourself, write down
your dreams. Desire makes a man. Many people think about
Job but few people think about the advantage and the disadvantage of being
unemployed. If you are unemployed, don’t worry, nothing happens overnight.
There are many advantages, let’s talk about that, if you are unemployed, you
don’t need to get up early in the morning and go to work in rush hour. We can
enjoy leisure life, read newspaper, magazines, meet relatives, and hang out
with friends and so on. We don’t need to bow in front of the boss. Similarly, we
can visit many places which we want. It
can be a great opportunity to create your own vision. What you supposed to be
but what happened now? Nothing Happens Overnight. Nothing is good and nothing
is bad in this world. Your thought creates good and bad things. Utilize your
time, build up your dream, wake up, do those things what you want from your
inner heart. Take action and make it your career.
Time
and tides never wait for any men. Each opportunity has its own value. You have
to properly utilize on time. If you waste your time, you will miss it, that
time never comes always. If you waste your valuable time, definitely you are
wasting your life. You must grab at the opportunity at the proper time. Don’t
postpone anything for the future. The Future
is future. Tomorrow is tomorrow, it never comes. Success always depends on the
proper use of valuable time. If you have a big dream, you must utilize and
realize your passion from your inner heart. If you ignore the valuable time and
golden opportunity. Life has definitely
led to failures. If you do not do any work on proper time, you can only regret
in future. We cannot correct our errors easily when the time is over. Great
singer Bob Marley says, “Life is
one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don't
complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your thoughts;
put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!”
We are human being
cannot control the time which has its own course and speed. Some people say,
Life is beautiful and some people say, life is ugly, life is long, and life is
short. Whatever, they all are illusions. Life is not as what we think. The main important thing is spend your life
in the right track. Don’t waste your time even every single second. What is failure? Nobody can success after success. Failure
is the way to start again. Failure is never final. Let’s discuss about the major causes of
failure. Lack of
purpose in life, many people is doing soothing but they don’t know what they
are doing. What is the purpose of life? They don’t know what they are doing?
Day by day repeating same thing. Lack of self-motivation, Illiteracy, Wrong decision, Not Knowing What They Want, Poor language skills, Lack of enthusiasm, Dishonesty, Lack of money, Guessing habits, Lack of ability, late night sleep, Giving Up, Not Doing What They Knows.
Think about it. Where you are? Judge by yourself and always listen your own
heart. figure out the solution, where is problem Therese is solution. Success and
achievement, they may glorify your life. It makes you feel so proud yourself. Don't look back; don’t live in your
past. Past is past, finished. Many people say that life is short, life is long
but in fact, Life is not too short not too long. Life is not
happy and not sorry, its only journey of the spiritual heart. Whatever I said,
this is not from the diary. This is from my inner heart. My heart is speaking
with you. It is not necessary to follow but think about it.
