http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/12/15/please-stop-sharing/?src=me&ref=general

Like the fact that this article brings to light the narcissism embedded in over-sharing in social networks such as facebook and twitter. It's amazing how people fight for privacy but at the same time a lot of people are willing to share their whereabouts on facebook, twitter, and geosharing etc. It's also strange how some people will go on and share pictures (mostly photoshopped) of events as simple as them eating breakfast, why? Is it the attention factor, the 3  minutes of fame? I feel like these sites have their own reality that is a reality away from the real reality. Plus, I think the worst part that we can all admit to is rampant stalking that goes on on facebook and reaching conclusions about someone just based on their facebook profile, which I think furthers superficiality and shallowness.

On the other hand, It does have its pros as well, it helps people keep in touch and network. We are social creatures after all and we do have the need to keep up socially, especially if we're not in Nepal and all of our friends are located  sporadically all over the world.


Thoughts?

 To be proud of being a beautiful woman is also a form of narcissism. Fez, are you saying that you are ashamed of being a strong man? 

I think that is a form of healthy narcissism, I agree with you that being proud of being beautiful and strong is very good. But I hardly think that putting up 1000 pictures of oneself is healthy narcissism, including letting the world know what you're up to every min of the day, I think it's excessive narcissism or just insecurities, no?

PS. I guess you just assumed I am a man, but if I were to be a strong man, inside and out, I'd be damn well proud of it too. :)

facebook and depression!!  pani hola ..
but anyway, that's not me saying, latest news report and surveys say so.

Docs warn about teens and 'Facebook depression'
With in-your-face friends' tallies, status updates and photos of happy-looking people having great times, Facebook pages can make some kids feel even worse if they think they don't measure up.
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 Fez,

Narcissim is about being obsessed with something. You are right in saying that there are healthy obsessions and there are negative obsessions,  An obsession becomes negative when you don't have control over it. 

So you are a woman? 

It is easy to assume that most of the names I see in sajha are mens. 

someone needs to find lesbian group :D no offence. 
every post s/he ends with 'are you a man/ are you a woman'??  looks just silly..

 BitterTruth, 

Here is what I have to say to you about the most important woman of your life:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHaeOPu1ijs&feature=related

common, don't generalise you lousy yourself to great other woman in different field . There are some flaws everywhere and that's you for whole woman race. I don' tknow you in person and this comment of mine is based upon what you've written and exposed yourself so far on sajha.
you really are deluded, I worry if you've some kind of syndrome. you need help.

BitterTruth, if the people who admire and respect your mother seem like they need help...then how do you treat those people that disrespect her and look down on her? Do you worship those who insult your mother...as your heroes? 

you don't even have a common sense, was not talking about whatever you posted on the link above, I haven't even watched it.. I was talking about you.. I have great respect for other great woman who deserve it.. but anyway I want to re-iterate there is flaw in everything. you are the flaw.
You'll be ignored now on. bye

Considering what a wonderful man you turned out to be, I'm sure there are many women who have come to admire your mother for the great job she has done in raising someone like you. 

Do you see all these women who admire your mother...as lesbians? 

That is so silly . You're a silly silly goose, BitterTruth. LOL. But silly in a cute kind of way 

 BitterTruth, maybe you're not a goose....but a cute little chicken...that ran away.... 

@rasika, You summoned me ,here comes the silly goose aka cute little chicken.
I want to make something clear before you spread false claims about me.
When I wrote my words above, I meant it. You really looked silly asking ppl about their sexuality. Don't you think it's silly, try it from others shoe, you'll realize that .. hopefully hai?? and you did ask more about same sex. So, I put you in 'lesbian' group.
That doesn't mean I look at them discriminatorily, it's their life, they can live however way they want. No fuss. That's it. That's the whole point of me writing that. Nothing else.

And, so far, you've been very rude to others as I've noticed. How come you are not so rude to me? and, How did you know I'm cute? Is anyone here leaking my identity to you? ;)
I'll have to nuke my id and get lost from here.. I don't want to be recognized.. nooooooooooooooooooooo

 I don't understand, Bittertruth. Have I revealed your identity by calling you a 'silly goose?' Or did I reveal your identity when I said you were a 'cute chicken?'

Anyway, I think you have a complex about women who admire your mother. I think you suffer from jealousy. You seem to think that they all want to have a lesbian relationship her. This is simply false. Do you suffer from some adolescent trauma with lesbianism in your family? You don't need to think this way. It's really not healthy. I'm sure that there are many women who genuinely admire what a wonderful job your mother did with you. 

You don't have to think that just because someone compliments your mother that they want to necessarily have a sexual relationship with her. That goes for both men and women. Both genders can admire your mother without wanting to sleep with her. Can't they?

what's your point?? I didn't understand the point..

 Wow, your trauma is worse than I thought. It seems you've blocked out some very traumatic memories from your childhood. Now, the mere mention of this subject is causing you to not understand regular English. How sad. 

lol, tuk na betuk ko kura garcheu.. k garnu..
ma kura garchu eka tira ko, timi tato-na-saro arka tira ko ryang-na-thyang ko kura garcheu...
ani k bhannu...

la la moj gari ra hola, moj garerai basi rakha

rashika kanche nani ra bitter truth mahodaya sir  le chicken ra goose ko kura garno bhaeko rahecha hehehe
face book ra nassim lai kahan chicken ra goose sangha compare garno bhaeko hazor harule phere hehehe
mahodaya le ramro kura othaono bhako rahecha nassism ra facebook bhanera

aba nasism ra facebook sabda beglai beglai bhae pani duita ko atyadhit  gadha sambandha cha
face book ma tanna hero bhae ra kapal korera daat majhera dammey thaoma photo khichera photo rakhno pani dherai ramro ho ni
aru haru lai pose dina kati ananda aaouncha
hamro palama theana yo facebook bhanne kura sayad 9 barsha matra bhayo hola yo face book aaieko kati anautho cheese kunai kuna ma basera sansar bhari ko mitra sathi bhai haru sangha guf garna pose dekhaona shan dekhaona paincha
sabai ko mann vitra eauta rajesh hamal jasto superstar banne rahar jaror hunccha ra tyo ichhya facebook le pura garideko cha

poila poila manche haru party sarty ma bhetera dammey perfume serfume lagara daat 3 choti majhera raksi khaera pose dinthe
tara ahele chai manche haru dammey luga lagara perfume serfume lagara daat 3 choti majhera photo khichera facebook ma upload garera pose dincha sayad teslai nai bhanincha hola nassism

nassism at its obsession at its best

lol intelligent bro.. nice goin..

that's why I bought samsung mv800.. the only camera made till date of it's kind.. it must be the first ever camera to flip and take photos anyway you like.. best suited for facebooker.. hahahah..

 LOL Bittertruth, fortunately, I like your sense of humour.