My girlfriend has started ignoring me since a few days ago. I asked her wether we were over, but she said we were not. Is this the way they behave if they don't want to be in a relation??? I am in a state of confusion. What do I do??

@ swisher,
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तिमरु को माया पिरती भनेको बस तेती हो? इन्टरनेटमा सोधी सोधी आफुलाई धाप दि आफ्नो मन बहलाउने | येसो दाया-बाया हेर्नु , ४०-५० वर्ष संगै बिताएका हजुरबाहरुको जोडीलाइ हेर्नु , एस्तो जाबो बकम्फुसे कुरामा कमिलाको चित्त जस्तो नबनाऊ आफुलाई अनि साचै नै माया गरेको हो भने इन्टरनेटमा आफ्नो उनिलाइ bitch भनेर आफुले आफ्नो खिल्ली उदौनी काम नगर्नु र सक्छौ भने नमुना जोडी हुने कोशिश गर्नु | हरेक नारि एकै हुन्छन भन्न खोझ्या होइन , हाम्लाई के थाह उनि कस्ती छिन् भनेर | येही साझामा बिदेशी श्रीमानको रेमिटान्समा परपुरुषसंग मोज गर्ने नारिहरुको कथा नि पढियो | तर तिम्लाई मात्र थाहा छ उनि कस्ती छिन् भनेर | कसैले भने अनुसार तिम्लाई emotional blackmail गरेको जस्तो देखिन्छ , सिददै is it over भनेर सोध्नु बेवकुफी हो | कुरा बुझ, give her some time, and see if she still does the same thing. 2-3 day is not enough to make decision like this. One thing you must do is to not get bothered, if you are she is successful at her attempt to make you her emotional slave. Give her some time, pretend like you are not worried about her at all and see if she calls you in a week or two screaming at you "Did you find someone else there?". That means you won. When you respond to her, keep your calm, be glad that she's yelling at you , that would be the mix of jealousy and love, simply take it and love her more in return. Long lasting relationship is based on so many compromises and sacrifices. But some women are just born differently to be in bed with different men. Just give yourself a break for a month, YES.. prepare your Mind to give a break for a MONTH, I bet she'll call you back in less than 2 week when she hears nothing from you. That would be the litmus test of your relationship. Don't follow the negative views of some folks here. They simply want your relationship destroyed for no reason. Many Nepalese men are full of ego, have very small heart and they are usually driven by comments like 'khutta bhayer jutta kati kati, chod dey randi lai , etc etc ' I find it utterly humorous. Do yourself a favor, and stop behaving like her emotion slave, be a man and give yourself a break .. at least a month. You'll find the truth, if she's into you or not.
Best of luck.

PS: This scheme will fail miserably if you call her somehow and cry, beg etc.. Don't do that.I had to warn you cause you seem like a very emotional man.

I agree with bittertruth on this. just forget her for a month. That's called 30 days rule..

@ bittertruth
Thank you for suggestions. I was thinking of doing the same thing. Yes, I will do so, and she will find me nowhere, not even on social networking sites. Thank you once more, bro!!!!

I think I shouldn't be in this relation. I haven't spoken with her for 3 days and have been feeling better. Time to move on I guess...

I am in the same situation. I am really confused too. We shared everything, and now if i try to forget her, all the reminiscences roll over, and can't stop thinking about it. Never thought this was going to happen.

Exactly, that's what happening to me.. Good moments we shared roll over and make my life tough.. Just ignore her, esman!! Don't talk, soon you will start feeling better.

मुजिहरु को गुल्लांडे वेदना सुनेर मेरो भर्जिनिटि रीस्टोर हुन लागि सक्यो भन्या, के बिधि रुन सकेका.

या त तिमिहरुकी प्रेमिका अप्सरा जस्ती हुन पर्छ या त तिमीहरु जन्मजात कुरुप.

आजकाल को जमाना मा मुजी साझा. कम मा आएर गर्लफ्रेन्ड लाइ सम्झेर धुरुधुरु रुन्छन भन्या. थुक्क.

रोइराको मान्छेलाइ नि झपार्न बाकि राख्दैन खातेहरु

ओहो, खाते मित्र, जदौ,

आंसू पुछ्न त्यस्तो लालायित हुनुहुन्छ भने टिस्स्यु म पठाइदिम्ला, कि कसो?

मुजी हरु लाइ त्यस्तै मर्का पर्या भए बेस्ट फ्रेन्ड संग सलाह माग्थे साझा का खाते हरु अघि फ़लाक्दैनथे

हो खाते तँलाइ सबै थाहा छ | तेरो कति जना बेस फ्रेन छ ? खाते हरुको बेस्ट फ्रेन भनेको नाम मात्र हो बुझिश?

ल मुजी, म चाहिं तपाइंलाई तपाईं भनेर सम्बोधन गर्ने, तपाईं चाहिं मलाइ तँ?

पर सर्या हो कि क्या हो जाँठो? टिस्स्यु त मुजी तैं लाइ पो चाहिने रैछ.

ए मुजी खाते मलाई तपाईं भन्नु पर्दैन तँ नै भन बुजिश? कत्तीं न आफुलाई बडा ठुलो राज रजौरिया सम्झिन्छस कि के हो? तपाईं हजुर भनेर आफु सिक्छित घरानिया भनेर देखौन खोज्या? चाहिदैन त्येस्तो मुजी रवाफ | तँ मुजी नि खाते होश खुरुक्क म खाते हुँ भनेर भन | त्यो तिस्सु तँ नै राख पछि हग्दा काम लाग्छ | मलाई आफु खाते हुँ भन्न केहि संकोच छैन तँ मुजी ठुला बडा जस्तो देखाउन नखोज आखिर खाते न होश मुजी खाते भएर आफ्नै लेभलमा बस्न सिख |

हुन त ठिकै भनिस मुजी, तँ नि खाते म नि खाते, तैंले भन्या टोनां रिस मात्र उठ्या हो.

अब तँ अरु मुजी खाते हरु लाइ ठेगान लगा, परे सपोर्ट म दिउँला, अब सपोर्ट चाहिन्न भनेर बिच्किने नि होलास तर बाल मतलब

Ma ni Texas mai ho, momo chaai malai ni khaana man cha hai... bhandi haaleyko chance ma.