For those girlfriendless like me,can you give some tricks to approach a girl? ...

the poem has become your lover

lfc123, isn't that bad sign for me? I think my heart never stops crying..

i dont' know whether it is a bad sign or not, but i do know that girls don't dig desperate men.

To approach a girl you have to have a reason. Either because you like her, or you just wanna "talk" to her. In the latter case, it's really easy. Because you don't have feelings for her.
However in the first case, to approach a girl to like her, first you have to KNOW HER. She could be the nicest lookin girl with the dumbest brains, which by the way turns me off. I may not be the most suave sophisticated individual but I have my reasons and expectations. Anyways, to know her, you must know her from someone (friends, relatives??)or from somebody else(oerheard a conversation about her), or she may be popular so you may have simply heard about her.
Once you know that information, make plans. How do you start a conversation with her with one of the "things" you heard about her as the topic of conversation? Maybe she's involved in some organization, and you wanna show respect and appreciation? Don;t compliment her on what she already hears a lot, like "Hey, I really like what you did did with....or I really like your hair(WTF!!!)...or something like , "Hey, wassup! I am in that lecture with you.....", she'll most probably go "ok....so??". It's usually the easiest if you have something very legitimate to talk about. If she's in your class or at work, and youre working on similar things, you can relate to it and work together on it, or maybe make a suggestion that you wanted to work with someone. Be professional first. not romantic. Don;t complement girls on their looks right away. Women are different these days. They wanna feel that they're successful with their lives and that people appreciate them not just for their beauty. Tap into that hidden door and you'll be successful. Approach girls who have an eye for you, that's even easier, you know the ones that you "feel" are checkin you out from afar? Those are easier cuz they've done half the work for you. Now all it takes is you get your ass up and go talk to her about something RELEVANT. But don't just talk to her only if you're in a crowd. Talk to people around you, you gotta be friendly. Don;t make her feel like youre hitting on her. She should be "JUST ANOTHER STUDENT, OR COWORKER, OR WHATEVER your situation is". And act cool but smart as hell! Girls like sexy cool nerds, (if you wanna settle down with a nice wholesome girl that is)

I'm not personally looking for a relationship but my experience is that it's kinda hard to make a girl to like you. It's like trying to win a battle. Mostly guys do that simply because she's hot or pretty. Approaching a girl is never hard. It's why you want to approach her for that is difficult.
And stay away from the popular ones. They are hard to get to. First of all dont GO FOR GIRLS just because you feel the need to or feel that you need a girlfriend because everyone has one. That'll solve half your problem.

REMEMBER, YOU CANNOT BE YOURSELF WHEN YOURE with some youre attracted to. But don't be someone you never imagined in your dreams that you would be either.

To approach a girl you have to have a reason. Either because you like her, or you just wanna "talk" to her. In the latter case, it's really easy. Because you don't have feelings for her.
However in the first case, to approach a girl to like her, first you have to KNOW HER. She could be the nicest lookin girl with the dumbest brains, which by the way turns me off. I may not be the most suave sophisticated individual but I have my reasons and expectations. Anyways, to know her, you must know her from someone (friends, relatives??)or from somebody else(oerheard a conversation about her), or she may be popular so you may have simply heard about her.
Once you know that information, make plans. How do you start a conversation with her with one of the "things" you heard about her as the topic of conversation? Maybe she's involved in some organization, and you wanna show respect and appreciation? Don;t compliment her on what she already hears a lot, like "Hey, I really like what you did did with....or I really like your hair(WTF!!!)...or something like , "Hey, wassup! I am in that lecture with you.....", she'll most probably go "ok....so??". It's usually the easiest if you have something very legitimate to talk about. If she's in your class or at work, and youre working on similar things, you can relate to it and work together on it, or maybe make a suggestion that you wanted to work with someone. Be professional first. not romantic. Don;t complement girls on their looks right away. Women are different these days. They wanna feel that they're successful with their lives and that people appreciate them not just for their beauty. Tap into that hidden door and you'll be successful. Approach girls who have an eye for you, that's even easier, you know the ones that you "feel" are checkin you out from afar? Those are easier cuz they've done half the work for you. Now all it takes is you get your ass up and go talk to her about something RELEVANT. But don't just talk to her only if you're in a crowd. Talk to people around you, you gotta be friendly. Don;t make her feel like youre hitting on her. She should be "JUST ANOTHER STUDENT, OR COWORKER, OR WHATEVER your situation is". And act cool but smart as hell! Girls like sexy cool nerds, (if you wanna settle down with a nice wholesome girl that is)

I'm not personally looking for a relationship but my experience is that it's kinda hard to make a girl to like you. It's like trying to win a battle. Mostly guys do that simply because she's hot or pretty. Approaching a girl is never hard. It's why you want to approach her for that is difficult.
And stay away from the popular ones. They are hard to get to. First of all dont GO FOR GIRLS just because you feel the need to or feel that you need a girlfriend because everyone has one. That'll solve half your problem.

REMEMBER, YOU CANNOT BE YOURSELF WHEN YOURE with some youre attracted to. But don't be someone you never imagined in your dreams that you would be either.

To approach a girl you have to have a reason. Either because you like her, or you just wanna "talk" to her. In the latter case, it's really easy. Because you don't have feelings for her.
However in the first case, to approach a girl to like her, first you have to KNOW HER. She could be the nicest lookin girl with the dumbest brains, which by the way turns me off. I may not be the most suave sophisticated individual but I have my reasons and expectations. Anyways, to know her, you must know her from someone (friends, relatives??)or from somebody else(oerheard a conversation about her), or she may be popular so you may have simply heard about her.
Once you know that information, make plans. How do you start a conversation with her with one of the "things" you heard about her as the topic of conversation? Maybe she's involved in some organization, and you wanna show respect and appreciation? Don;t compliment her on what she already hears a lot, like "Hey, I really like what you did did with....or I really like your hair(WTF!!!)...or something like , "Hey, wassup! I am in that lecture with you.....", she'll most probably go "ok....so??". It's usually the easiest if you have something very legitimate to talk about. If she's in your class or at work, and youre working on similar things, you can relate to it and work together on it, or maybe make a suggestion that you wanted to work with someone. Be professional first. not romantic. Don;t complement girls on their looks right away. Women are different these days. They wanna feel that they're successful with their lives and that people appreciate them not just for their beauty. Tap into that hidden door and you'll be successful. Approach girls who have an eye for you, that's even easier, you know the ones that you "feel" are checkin you out from afar? Those are easier cuz they've done half the work for you. Now all it takes is you get your ass up and go talk to her about something RELEVANT. But don't just talk to her only if you're in a crowd. Talk to people around you, you gotta be friendly. Don;t make her feel like youre hitting on her. She should be "JUST ANOTHER STUDENT, OR COWORKER, OR WHATEVER your situation is". And act cool but smart as hell! Girls like sexy cool nerds, (if you wanna settle down with a nice wholesome girl that is)

I'm not personally looking for a relationship but my experience is that it's kinda hard to make a girl to like you. It's like trying to win a battle. Mostly guys do that simply because she's hot or pretty. Approaching a girl is never hard. It's why you want to approach her for that is difficult.
And stay away from the popular ones. They are hard to get to. First of all dont GO FOR GIRLS just because you feel the need to or feel that you need a girlfriend because everyone has one. That'll solve half your problem.

REMEMBER, YOU CANNOT BE YOURSELF WHEN YOURE with some youre attracted to. But don't be someone you never imagined in your dreams that you would be either.

holi shit, katro long post ani tyop pani 3 times? sorry hair admin? refresh garda bigrecha kya!

time traveller
either you have had many expereinces dealing with girls (...doubtful..ehehe) ..or u have too much time in ur hand. kun chahi paryo?

Don't click on this, You will suffer..You won't like me...

Act Cheesy, Horny and Useful (in a funny sorta way)

eg 1. Cheesy: If she's walking with you and she says its cold. Offer your jacket even you know you don't want to give it to her. This is very predictable for her and she'll say "Hero banna khojya" then say..at least hindi movie ko hero ta banna deu :)

eg 2. Horny: When she says its time to say goodbye..say you have a queen size bed and its too big for you. She'll say "no thank you, mero afnai cha" then tell her why don't she take you to her bed then. then she'll say "guys are not allowed in our house" then say.."keti banera aauchu ni" :)

eg 3. Useful: Sound sophisticated and even if u work with something like hookworms and eggs of the flies, tell them how you're saving the world with it..even if not now, some distant day into the future...

oh shit..how to appraoch huh....start with a hug and feel her buttocks and when she freaks out..say "jees! i thought u were fat"

in jest!

what was that for mr.khan?

Don't Click on this, You will suffer.....

mr. chill,
have you employed any of the techniques you suggested yourself?

Oh Mr. Hussain_Khan, what the hell is that link ? Crap....

lfc123, absolutely, all the time! but the catch here is it all depends on the level of comfort hoina? :)

It generally doesnt' work on demanding ones who go to seek brad pitt and clooney when they meet with friends :). These are the types who won't even laugh unless you tell them those "KNOCK KNOCK" jokes and they smirk if u tell them "knock knock knocking on the heaven's door" know what i mean? It only takes a few minutes when you talk to someone to figure out whether you can be yorself with this person or you have to put on your oscar suit all night long.


Ok here's another realistic advice...Never have expectations. It really helps. Don't start with "les go for a movie or a concert or a park" Start out with "Do you want to meet for a cup of coffee or sth" We're really so insecure when it comes to strangers. Well, if you don't like coffee like me, get hot chocolate. They say you can never go wrong on a hot chocolate besides trivia says hot chocolate has similar aphrodiasic chemicals that get released during the course of intercourse. If you can muster some courage, buy her a a slice of tiramisu :). It will be too big for her anyways and she'll ask if you want to share it with her. If she doesn't, she's too uncomfortable with you.

If she does, here's your chance.....hold her face up, check out her eyes, and the face and gaze into it forever. She'll freak out again and ask "what are you doing?" Say seriously into her face "just checking if you have any std's (wow! science student at work) " :). If she gets offended, say J/K and laugh and know, she's one of those demanding types. If she laughs with you, she has a good sense of humor just like you . Not all approaches have to end up in romantic relationships. Few allow you to be yourself and still have fun hanging out. Sex sells, humor sells better. and if you can make your own jokes and be comfortable with it, even better. Originality is a killer :)

so what do u say lfc123, do you want to..uhh..meet for a coffee or sth? we'll call it dutch on the cake if u want it ...based on you calling me Mister. I don't get that much these days.

kay hau bro, spring break ma maasti huh

oys said "absolutely, all the time! but the catch here is it all depends on the level of comfort hoina? :)"
>>> CYBER level of comfort?

:=)

hahaha
good one AX ....

hhhh!
OUCHh!

biha bhayeko dai haroo.......kina haluwa ma baluwa banne hola.....yeso..good words put garnu ta kata kata :).Tangra ko yetroooooooo rish???? tyo euta dialogue yaad aayo

"doosro ka kya kahe? apno ne hi marwadiya" :(

oys_chill
if ur such an expert on asking girls' out based on ur recommendations, how come you are asking someone out on the net? why don't u approach one of ur own friends...or is it only the "cyber comfort" that you got?

oh AX is married....never mind....why are there so many oldies in sajha yarr??